How To Stay Safe In The Online Dating Scene
Pam Baldwin
The growing popularity of the Internet has created a business boom for dating services. Companies such as FriendFinder have huge member databases that are growing daily, making it easy to find people who share the same interests. For busy professionals online dating services are an ideal solution to meeting new people.
Even though online dating is so convenient, and you may think that you have found your perfect person, you still have to be safe. If you meet somebody on FriendFinder, and have only talked by email or instant messenger, you do not know if the person is safe. However, following the guidelines below, you can have a safe, happy date, and perhaps you perfect person will become you only person ?.
First, always meet with the person in a public place. Don't tell him/her your home address or home telephone number. (The reason for not giving your home phone number is that it is possible to track your address). Even if this is not your first date with the person before, you should be careful when giving out personal information. Even if the person takes offense to it, be firm, and say it is for safety reasons.
Next, you should always meet in a public place with large groups of people nearby. A concert, cafe, or a movie would be safe choices. Never meet in a secluded area or travel to one while on your first date. If possible, try to arrange to bring friends along as a double date. This may seem awkward on a first date but it's important if you want stay safe in the online dating scene.
Another important safety tip is to avoid alcohol on your first date. You don't want your judgement to be impaired or to let your guard down. If you do drink, however, keep your alcohol consumption to a minimum and always keep sight of your glass.
Another good idea is to pay half the bill on your first date. By doing so, you will not feel obligated to go on a second date if you are not interested.
Make sure that you tell a friend of yours that you are going on a date. State the place you are going to and when you will be back. Ask the friend to call you after you get home, to make sure you are safe. Or you can end the date by going to your friend.
Last but not least, trust your judgment. If something doesn't feel right about the person, then it probably isn't. If you feel uneasy, end the date early. Just because you talked with the person a lot by email, you can only see that something is not right with that person when you talk to him/her in person. If you trust your judgment and use common sense, you will have a safe and great date!
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