What Kind of Secrets Can Ruin A Marriage? Financial Secrets
Jeannie Giordano
Secrets can ruin a marriage.
In the first part of the series, I will be covering financial secrets.
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/02/12/earlyshow/contributors/daveramsey/main3820349.shtml) According to author and radio host, Dave Ramsey , many people keep financial secrets and those secrets can be a sign of or cause problems within a marriage.
A lack of communication and cooperation in a marriage is the case whether or not a spouse is keeping small items a secret or accumulating a $50,000 credit card debt.
If one spouse feels as if they don't have control of their financial life, they often spend money specifically to "rebel". Often this is how financial secrets begin.
Giving money to a child without telling their spouse is one way many people keep financial secrets. In addition, a divorced parent in a blended family sometimes will try to protect the child from an ?evil stepmother? or stepfather by handing out money.
Getting to the bottom of the reason why the financial secret exists is critical to begin solving the problem. It's also important to discuss the mistake with your partner. Being honest will clear the air and allow the healing process to begin.
If you're not ready to reveal your secret to your partner, revealing it online anonymously is at least a start. You must be able to own up to it yourself in order to come to terms with the issue. The next big step is to admit your mistake to your partner. Ultimately, it will be up to you to decide whether or not to reveal your secret, but being able to admit it to yourself will be liberating and cause healing to begin. Dig deeply into yourself to find the answers and you will not be disappointed. Revealing oneself shines the light on the truth. This in turn leads to living a life of happiness and peace.
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