laying the foundation
John Harris
A huge part of attracting and seducing a woman happens before the two of you even speak. I would say probably 90%! Women want certain things from a man, and it is your job to present it to them. Better than presenting certain characteristics is to actually be someone who has these characteristics!
Call to mind the first step of the four part progression: Put yourself in her line of sight and show the traits she wants to see (Alpha male traits). She has made up most of her mind about you before you ever speak to her.
This is crucial, and this is more than simply being an attractive man. Women want an alpha male, a leader of men, a confident man. The man conveys this to her through his body language. Of course, it's easier to convey confidence when you actually have it. How do you get it?
You obtain it by living a great life. You obtain it by going after the things that you are zealous about. You obtain it by living a well-rounded life and having a strong foundation. By having a solid foundation, women will be a derivative of your awesome life, not the basis for it.
So, what are you zealous about? What gets your motor running? Having a lucid sense of what kind of person you are and what you want from life is the beginning of a solid foundation. Be truthful with yourself. It can be hard to examine yourself in this way, but it is something you need to do to start forming the foundation.
Do you want to improve yourself, or is getting dates what encompasses who you are? Women are a result of your great life. Paradoxically, this is less about women and more about you. If you are living your wonderful life you will attract more women than if women are the criteria of whether or not your life is great.
Which guy do you think attracts more women, the guy at the club who is out with his friends joking and laughing and having a great time, or the guy out with his friends "looking for a date"? Do you see what I mean? Now, go out there and start living!
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