Regarding Frames
John Harris
Today's article is about frames and how having the proper frame in any encounter in life (Especially with women) will improve your chances ten fold. The concept is simple but can be difficult to master. As with anything, practice makes perfect.
Regarding women, a common frame a man may have when approaching a woman for the first time is: "She is so hot. I hope I'm good enough for her. I hope I can show her how great I am so maybe she'll go out with me".
Sound familiar? Do you think having this frame before talking to a woman will help your cause? What if instead the man had this frame: "Hmmm. She seems like the kind of girl who might be worthy of me. Today's her lucky day, because I'm going to give her a chance to show me if she's worthy".
The second frame is obviously more powerful. The way I look at it, if you're going to go up to a woman and start a conversation, you may as well have the proper frame. If you're going to do something, do it right! A few days ago I covered having a good foundation. That applies here.
You need to realize that you are the prize. You are the chooser. You are the one who decides if any encounter with a woman you meet is going to go to the next level. When you have these kinds of thoughts going through your head, women will pick up on it, trust me.
I need to point out that you should never state your frames verbally. You'll come across as a jerk. Your demeanor and attitude will convey your frame, not your words. This will be 100 times more powerful than stating it. People that have standards and are choosy usually get better quality than people who are desperate and will take anything given to them.
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