How To Date Women - Dating Secrets For Men
Joseph Matthews
When you think of "dating" a woman, you probably think of "dinner and a movie," am I right?
You go out and doing things with the woman while you get to know her.
Well, what if I told you that you had the completely WRONG idea about dating?
See, most guys use the concept of "going out" with a girl to mean that there is some romantic ulterior motive there, and that is not always the case.
Let's go over some of the most common mistakes guys make when "dating" a girl...
Mistake #1: Guys use dates as opportunities to "Impress" women.
Many men feel they have to prove themselves while on a date, so the woman is attracted to them. Many may take a woman out to expensive places while showing her a good time; while they go on to build himself up as important by bragging.
Mistake #2: You can buy the love of a woman.
Sadly, many men think that if they spend enough money on a woman, they can get her to sleep with them. This is always (and has always been) a bad idea. Aside from the gold diggers in the world, most women don't care how much you're spending on a date.
Mistake #3: Activities Mean Nothing!
Just the sheer act of going out to places with somebody doesn't mean as much as you think it does. If you do the typical "dinner and a movie" thing, that won't necessarily get the girl to like you. Spending time together does not always equate to romantic interest.
Mistake #4: Guys can become BORING!
A date with no spark of chemistry is boring. Although many men become nervous while on dates, they often interrupt themselves by becoming boring. They often talk about their routines while displaying little to none of their distinct personality. This is going through the motions with hopes of not messing things up.
Mistake #5: The patterns of failure.
Some men have a preconceived ideal of dating, how they think things should happen, and then they rigidly follow that perception. They may go out on a dinner date, while they ask her all the same questions as their other dates. This eliminates all the spontaneous fun of interacting with the woman.
So what does it mean to date a woman?
Simple: Dating is the process of building comfort, strengthening emotional connections, and building attraction!
See, it doesn't matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you're able to connect to the woman you're with and what you can make her feel about you.
You will notice that this is the major factor in the difference of going on cheap dates while truly romancing a woman and that of spending a great deal of money and getting nowhere fast.
Your entire focus while dating a girl should be "how can I become more emotionally connected to this girl?"
You should be open to talking about your shared passions and interests, while trying to figure out what her hopes and dreams may be.
Learn to rephrase your questions, rather than wanting to know where she works, ask her some interesting and fun questions, such as If you could do anything you wish, what would you wish to do?
Just have fun and enjoy yourself!
Crack jokes - even if they're not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.
More importantly, never shy away from relationship discussions.
Too many guys are afraid to even broach the topic of sex while on a date. But you have to build the sexual tension to intensify the attraction.
Be a little wicked by flirting and joking with her, as this will encourage and build the attraction she has for you and then you can move on to the next level of your relationship.
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