Pick Up Lines That Work
Joseph Matthews
Some pick up lines are just terrible.
When have you heard some of the cheesiest of pick up lines like the following...
"Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?"
"Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?"
"I lost my number, can I have yours?"
Let's face it - if you use lines like these on a girl, she's not going to give you the time of day.
Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention, therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.
And this just isn't true.
A good pick up line will actually do what it says - help you pick up a girl!
The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.
PERIOD.
You can work your magic to do what you need to get a date with her, a phone number and an emotional connection, once she begins talking to you.
If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.
You not only talk to a woman, you engage her, by drawing her into a conversation, and this is the only means to continuing with your goal.
Good pick up lines help you do this.
Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.
That is why it's important to know one or two good pick up lines that actually WORK. Because for those situations where you can't be original, you need something to help you take action!
Keep in mind that women are wise; never use these types of pick up lines, since they get you nowhere at all.
"Do I know you from somewhere?"
This is a lame pick up line, and all women know it, you might think yourself clever, but they will not.
Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.
Why is this?
Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.
Good pick up lines avoid "yes and no" answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.
So how do you engage a girl?
Easy, ask her opinion about some issue, since each woman has her own opinion, she likes to share with other, especially when it concerns relationships.
Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.
Then follow up with a short story of how a woman may want her and her children's zodiac sign to be compatible, so they interact well together throughout their lives.
This can lead to various other topics of conversation, such as:
1. Relationships 2. Astrology 3. Marriage 4. Pregnancy 5. Children
The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:
"Do you think there's something to astrology?" (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)
"What sign are you?" (this leads into your sign compatibility with her - HINT: no matter what her sign is, you're compatible!)
"Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type."
I could go on and on, but you get the idea.
So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to become familiar with you.
This is how you engage a woman in conversation.
Once you reach this point, ask for her telephone number and set up your first date.
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