Four Steps To Pick Her Up
John Harris
When women are attracted to men, it is because the man has displayed to her that he has superior genes. A woman desires subconsciously to have superior offspring, evolutionarily speaking. Consequently, her number one biological criteria when selecting a man to have sex with is whether or not the man has shown her alpha male traits (superior genes).
Certainly, women don't consciously make this choice. It is a result of billions of years of evolution. We are merely animals. Advanced animals, but animals even so. When a woman becomes interested in having sex with a man, her thoughts are not "He has superior genes so I want to sleep with him so I can have superior offspring".
Instead, her thoughts are probably "He is alluring. I like him. He makes me feel womanly and beautiful and horny". Her emotions tell her, not her rational, sane conscious mind.
This should make sense. Consider every time you have seen this. You have probably noticed women falling for guys that didn't seem worthy of her. Slimy, even. Had you looked closer, you would have seen that they probably were displaying the characteristics we are talking about here.
When a woman meets this type of man, common sense and logic go to the waist side. How many times have you heard a woman say she prefers a certain kind of man, but dates the exact opposite?
The seduction of a woman is a four part process.
1. The man exhibits alpha male characteristics and aligns himself in the woman's field of vision.
This is as simple as leaving your house, looking your best, and exhibiting alpha male characteristics. Of source, without aligning yourself in a woman's field of vision, it is all for naught. It's like setting up shop in the middle of the desert. Notice I didn't say approach a woman unprovoked. Wait for the signals first. The best part about this is you can pretty much do this wherever woman are. The grocery store, school, church, the mall, etc.
* The woman sends the man signals that she is interested.
The majority of men are not very good at reading a woman's body language. Fortunately, it is a learned skill that can be developed over time.
* After receiving the signals, the man approaches the women (Assuming he is interested).
All I can say is the approach must be relevant to the situation. If you are in the mall, comment on the selection of clothes. If you are in church, comment on the choir. If you are in class, comment on the instructor. No pickup lines should be used at any time. The important thing to focus on is the angle of the approach (45 degrees) and your body language (More on this later). Be sure to turn your head slightly to face her and not to face her head on. This is intrusive.
* At some point after meeting, the man discreetly presents the woman an opportunity to be alone with him (Without mentioning sex).
Discretion is very important. Don't embarrass her in front of her friends, and don't mention sex directly. This will ruin your chances. Even if she wants to have sex with you, she won't if you bring it up directly. The key is to make up an excuse for the two of you to be alone. She'll get the idea and can either "accept" or "reject" your invitation.
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