The Subtle Art Of Seduction
Joseph Matthews
The ideal male lover lives and breathes for the woman who has romantic fantasies, because this is the woman he can most easily impress and cajole into doing what he wants.
What men say, what they do - even the smallest things like an offhanded comment or the casual touch on the arm - can really stimulate a woman's romantic imagination.
The real art of seduction is more than something you're just "born with." Art is something you can admire and learn from, it has nothing to do with natural talent.
Real seduction is all about understanding the woman and discovering what makes her tick. Learning a woman's desires, needs, and passions can give you an in-road into escalating things romantically.
You need to start asking yourself the tough questions - who are you? Do you believe in yourself? Do you think you're attractive? Allowing yourself to be confident will help others to see that confidence in you.
stepping your game up a little, and practicing some confidence enhancing techniques, you are already well on your way there - there is nothing that a lot of women find more attractive than a man who is confident (not too confident!) in himself, sexually as well as otherwise.
Confidence allows you to find the courage to meet and interact with any woman you want. The average guy, who's riddled with insecurities, will chicken out and let fear affect their success with women. But by developing your confidence, you'll have an edge when it comes to getting the girl you desire.
Don't forget this old saying - a brave man won't live forever. But a cautions man won't live at all!
Determine what about you others could find attractive. It doesn't have to be your looks, it could be something about your personality.
You need to learn how to use what you have to your advantage, instead of wishing you had a better body or better looks, you need to focus on what you DO have, like your winning smile, great sense of humor, or full head of hair. The lesson here is - take what you DO have and make it work for you!
Think about what women have previously liked about you, or commented positively on; not all women find the same features attractive, so you really need to focus on more than one. Choose something about your face to start with, this is the portal for all of your emotions and what she sees there can ultimately mean the difference between success and failure.
Once you've decided on your finest facial feature, you need to decide how to capitalize on it. Long lingering looks with those eyes of yours really could make her legs go wobbly - providing of course you don't do too much of it, a shy smile to show your white but slightly crooked teeth could make her heart melt if done at the right time. Utilize your assets and you're halfway there.
Men don't often place as much importance on romance as women do, but do not ignore the power of romantic gestures! Almost all women are suckers for the right kind of romance.
What all women do appreciate though is the odd gesture that shows you care or find her attractive. This doesn't need to be an extravagant gift; it could be something as simple. Wrack your brains for something original, that you think she'd really like - a line of poetry snuck into her handbag, a small book or CD/DVD on a topic you've both talked about together so she remembers you, just something small but memorable.
Be brave. Not too brave, just brave. Allow a little bit of daring when you flirt and try things other men don't usually try, allow the 'cad' in you to sneak out and have a little bit of fun!
Seduction is about merging all of the senses together to leave her literally hanging onto your next move and you simply cannot seduce someone with words alone.
But don't allow yourself to just "let things happen." Proper seduction takes a lot of planning and premeditation to get right. That's not to say you can rush a seduction, but you can make it so that things play out to your advantage.
Finally, don't be afraid to make your move when the time comes. If you've done everything right, she'll be ready for you when you go in for the kiss. If you've mastered the art of seduction, she may even be the one to make the move on you first!
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