Using Competition To Amp Up Persuasion
Kenrick Cleveland
Working out has become a very important part of my life in the last year, and in this "new" environment (new to me) I have had the opportunity to study a different side of human nature. One of my favorite things about my gym is that it's not a meat market. There aren't mirrors everywhere and people strutting around wanting to see and be seen. I've made some interesting observations lately. Something I noticed recently has started me thinking about persuasion and competition.
However, on occasion, I've noticed that as I ride the stationary bicycle, someone will hop on to the one next to me and I pick up my pace a little. It's not a conscious decision, really, but my other than conscious wanting to show off a little. It could be a desire not to be outdone.
Conversely, I have also noticed if I get on a machine next to someone, they'll often do the same thing. Most people have a high desire for competition. This drive may or may not be something we embrace. I'm a competitive person who embraces it. As a sales person I loved challenging myself using other people's records as benchmarks. I would constantly challenge myself to double or triple what the other sales people around me were doing.
Competition occurs in environments where there are limited resources-like animals competing for water or food. As humans, especially in the U.S., we have built our whole economy on competition-the survival of the fittest. It's not about trade and cooperation, for the most part, unless you shop at a Co-op. We compete to be recognized, we compete for money, we compete for mates, we compete for parking spots. And when we're done competing, we sit and watch sports teams and 'American Idols' and 'Survivors' and intellectually challenged beauty contestants compete.
As for my gym observation, this showed me how competition can be an added incentive for self improvement. Some part of my mind says that by showing the person on the next machine what I'm made of by working out harder or faster, then I'm only doing myself good. In this respect, competition can be healthy. A drinking contest is obviously an entirely different story.
So how can this base instinct be used most effectively for selling our products or services? Well, we see it all the time. . . two gas stations across the street from each other with slightly different prices, the lower of the two deciding to take that much less for the product. I'm not suggesting you lower your prices by any means, but through framing, we can show ourselves, our products, our services, as the answer in the minds of our affluent prospects and clients. 'I am by no means the cheapest, and in fact, I may be one of the more expensive realtors, but you really do get what you pay for.'
What is your relation to competition? Do you embrace it or shy away from it? And how can you begin to use it for persuasion purposes?
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