Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed - How To Pick Up Women
Joseph Matthews
Are you struggling when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women? If so, here are some guidelines to help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams!
Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start?
Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from their friends and family who know even LESS about how to get a girl than they do. Even so-called "Dating experts" that you see on TV usually don't know what they're talking about because they have to cater to the feminist media! (And truth be told, the mainstream media looks down on any tactic that could help guys get laid!)
Understand: Learning how to pick up women is not a politically-correct topic!
If you want to get started right away, you're going to need some practical advice that really works! Luckily, you've found this article! So let's get to it...
First off - here's what you DON'T need to pick up women.
You DON'T need to be "male model" good looking.
This is a big mistake most men make. Understand that about 85% of women actually care more about how a man can make them FEEL than how the man actually LOOKS.
So if you don't think you're a good looking guy, fear not! You're not out of the game yet.
Second, you DON'T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!
Some of the best pick up artists I've ever met never spend more than $30 when on a date, and many of them didn't even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn't a very nice one!)
If a girl really likes you, she's not going to care how much money you make or spend on her. And the key to picking up women is to get them to like you, right?
Lastly, you DON'T need big muscles, be a certain nationality or ethnicity, be famous, or any other things you can think of.
Look - No matter what obstacle you think you have when it comes to getting a girl to like you, having a great personality trumps them all!
If you know the proper way to interact with women, nothing else matters.
Unless you're currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics - after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what you've learned, you'll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!
You'll want to try and go out as often as you can to talk to women - especially when you're first starting out. You may be intimidated to go to "high pressure" environments like bars or clubs where it's difficult to pick up women, but they are great practice grounds for you to hone your skills.
No matter what - if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every day to go out and pick up women. The more you do it, the better you'll get!
You might not have a whole lot of success when you first start - but you'll notice a change as your confidence with women begins to build. Every success or failure you experience will help teach you the things you need to do to properly pick up women, and more importantly, what NOT to do!
And the more experience you have, the more likely it is you'll be able to MASTER the art of picking up women!
And what you're doing when you go out to clubs and bars to pick up women is gaining experience!
When you do go out to gain this valuable experience with the ladies, try and look as good as you possibly can!
(Notice here that I'm not saying you have to be "good looking." I'm saying you need to "look good." There is a big difference between the two. You don't have any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance - your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)
Try and dress nicely - wear clothes that fit, that match, and that look good on you. If you're hopeless when it comes to fashion, get a savvy friend to help you out.
Keep in mind - you don't NEED to dress nicely to meet women, but it will make it much easier on yourself if you do! Not only that, but the better you look, the more confident you'll feel.
Keep an out out for every opportunity to pick up women that comes your way. Attractive women are just about everywhere, and if you notice an opportunity to talk to one, don't let it pass you by!
Remember - ever good pickup follows a very simple structure. This means there's a series of steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.
The structure is:
Find a woman.
Meet her.
Start Talking and Gain Rapport.
Build Attraction.
That's it! Four simple steps. You'll find that if you're able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.
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