3 Inside Secrets to Finding your Soul Mate
Wendy Bridger
Do you want to find your soul mate once and for all?
So many women hope to find their soul mate, the man of their dreams, Mr. Right, whatever you want to call him. Why do some women seem to have all the luck while the rest of the women of the world get stuck single or in a mediocre relationship? Is it really fate? Does it take seeing a psychic or some other mystical specialist? Absolutely not.
If fate doesn't determine whether or not you find your soul mate, who does? You do. Yes, finding your soul mate is really up to you. But, often you undermine your own heartfelt desires by your own unconscious actions. Below are three examples of how you might be keeping yourself from finding your soul mate.
Let go of Mr. Wrong.
Are you in a relationship that is going nowhere? Often women do this because they'd rather be coupled up with someone, anyone, than be single. Do you realize that staying coupled up is greatly lessening your chances of finding true love? Most of the guys you'd want to end up with have enough respect to avoid approaching a woman already in a relationship. Basically, each day you stay with your boyfriend, you risk Mr. Right walking past you.
Decide today if your boyfriend is truly soul mate material for you. If he is not, be strong, let go, and enjoy the benefits of being single. You may find your soul mate tomorrow, or it may take much longer. But, by being single, you have greatly increased your chances of him taking you seriously as something more than a friend.
Go after your dreams.
Maybe you've always dreamed of doing certain things with your soul mate at your side. Things like buying your first house, getting your advanced degree, or taking a trip to Hawaii. While it might be more fun to do those things together, why stop progressing just because you're still single?
Stopping and waiting will only make you depressed or a less desirable prospect. Moving forward with your personal dreams will better you as a person and make you a more attractive partner when you soul mate does enter the scene.
Determine your real needs.
Do you have an idea what you want in a soul mate? Most people do. However, do you know what you need? Sometimes we get what we wanted, only to feel unsatisfied. This happens when our underlying need is still unmet. For example, you may want a guy who belongs to your same religion and goes to church every Sunday. However, you're underlying need might be to find someone who has the same spiritual depth as you do. Can you see how you could find a guy who goes to church regularly, but has no deep spiritual foundation?
See how it's possible to get what you want and not what you need in a relationship? Many of us end up in mediocre relationships because of this. Find out what your needs really are, and end up with the right guy next time.
Remember, looking for your soul mate means continually progressing and understanding yourself in your own life and realizing that fate has little to do with finding him. Begin today by letting go, moving ahead and understanding your needs. You'll be happy that you did, whether you find him tomorrow or somewhere in the more distant future.
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