Information on Being Single Parents
Jane Bear
Single parenting is already becoming a rapidly growing trend in the society today. Studies show, that in the United States alone, there are four single parents to every ten parents and there are two single parents for every 10 adults.
In typical cases, a parent may become a single parent if left alone after divorce, after abandonment by the other parent, or after the other parent has died. Some individuals opt to become parents out of wedlock through artificial insemination or adoption.
More of single parent homes are female than male. The reason for this is that mothers are the one who gave birth to the child, so the mother and child have a stronger connection than with the fathers. But whatever the sex of the parent, parenting alone raises some unique challenges.
The problem being faced by a family headed by a woman is that the women's social position in society is still weaker than that of the men. Single mothers have to deal with the gender-based limitations of gaining employment, and they also have to cope with a demanding family. But in spite of this, females are known for being more emotional and show these emotions more often than men and they are more likely to nurture their children.
Before, fathers just were not socialized to be primary caregivers, but now it is not so rare to see a father raising a child on his own. Men tend to have higher positions in the work force, which in turn gives them higher income. However, fathers often do not communicate as well with their children as mothers do.
Being a single parent is a great challenge; they must juggle the demands of work, homework, house cleaning, and dealing with the financial aspects of running a family. Many children benefit from the increased attention that a single parent will often bestow in the absence of a spouse. Being brought up in a single parent home often makes children more mature, more self-reliant, and more responsible at a younger age.
However, many single parents find themselves feeling isolated at one point or another. Dating and hanging out with friends must take a back seat since time must be devoted to the child or children. Single parents don't really relate to singles without children because single parents have an entirely different set of priorities and responsibilities.
Single parents have the unique opportunity to influence their child or children for good or ill, without the counterbalance of another parent. Fortunately, many children raised in a single parent home will report with admiration the extra effort made by their single parent Mom or Dad.
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