Be Like A Magnet
Kenrick Cleveland
A woman I know, an extremely spiritual person, recently shared with me the following: 'I used to have unfortunate beliefs about myself and I received back from external influences unfortunate results. When I decided to take control and raise my resonance, to be the change I wanted to become, to allow abundance and love come flow through me, absolutely everything fell into place. I am now living a life of leisure with a beautiful husband and I can draw what I want into my universe at will.'
What does it take to be a love magnet, or a money magnet, or a health magnet?
It takes a shift in perception and really, that's all it takes.
We choose what we focus on in life. We choose to be miserable when it rains and happy when it's sunny. Or we can appreciate the downpour as an opportunity to take care of indoor activities or to go splashing through puddles.
When we focus on good, good comes to us. When we focus on grief, we grieve. This is not to say there's no place for grief in life, it's just to say, we need to be mindful that we're not suffering over our own suffering. We do not need to be grief magnets.
The other day I overheard a girl in a cafe telling her friend, 'I'm a freak magnet. I can't leave my apartment without running into someone either clinically insane, someone whacked out on drugs or fanatical about some weirdness who wants to have extensive interaction with me.'
Her friend said, 'That's crazy. Your neighborhood is really nice. You'd think there wouldn't be too many freaks around there.'
'I don't know. The freaks just seem to find me. They're everywhere that I am. They're just out there waiting for me to leave the house to try to get me to join their cult.'
I thought to myself how awful it was for this girl to have this belief about herself, that no matter where she goes, no matter what she's doing, she's going to draw the lowest common denominator to her.
This is really how attraction works. What you think about yourself, you are. What you believe about the world, is your reality. What you speak, is your truth.
I was so tempted. . . I wanted to tell her, 'You're programming yourself to be a freak magnet. You could just as easily be a money magnet, or a parking space magnet. . .' but I realized that my intrusion would only further her self-diagnosis. She'd completely misinterpret my attempt at kindness as just another freak, as in, 'You wouldn't believe the freak that came up to me in the cafe. . . He seemed normal, but. . . '
Whatever your beliefs, I implore you, take this freak's advice and adjust your expectations of what the world is going to bring you and start requesting only good and not the lowest common denominator.
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