The vast majority of the time when your girlfriend leaves you, it's generally because of something really stupid you either said or did. That should probably come as no surprise to you. What may be surprising to learn is that dealing with these insane creatures called women doesn't have to be so dang hard, not if you know what you've been doing wrong and can fix it!
And that's where I come in. Due to my own personal experiences, I've become rather well-versed in the many things that we idiots can do to really tick off our lovely ladies and make them want to strangle us but settle for leaving us. I am here to help you avoid the gravest mistakes or fix the ones you've made, by providing this "for-men-by-men" guide to not making your woman leave you...or murder you.
1) Top thing that makes girls really itch for your throat is when you just don't pay attention to her. Guys, you should know better. Women want to feel like their opinions and viewpoints matter to you. If they don't get the feeling that they're being heard when they talk for hours on end, they might stop talking to you altogether...and that's NOT a good thing. A woman requires constant attention.
That can be a little tricky sometimes though...too much attention and she'll think you're an obsessed freak who collects strands of her hair and rolls them into little balls and puts them in a locked chest. Obviously this is an impression you want to avoid, so finding that balance is essential. Best advice is to just listen to her. Like, actually listen. She'll TELL you what she wants. Usually.
2) There's this term women use...it's called when a guy is being "emotionally supportive" of his woman. This term means absolutely nothing as far as I can figure...basically it's just a way of measuring how well a guy knows his girl. It's kinda related to List Item #1, but a bit expanded. Women are looking for when a guy pays enough attention to a girl so that he knows her almost as well as she knows herself.
There are a few lucky guys out there who come by this naturally, and those are the guys who have "game." Women naturally love these fellas, because the boys naturally understand the women and what makes them happy. What to say, what to do...it varies from woman to woman, and only astute observation and attention paid to detail can make up for a lack of natural talent here.
3) Oh my God, do NOT let a woman catch you cheating on her. And by that I don't mean do it carefully, I mean don't do it. Women may take slightly less offense to other women cheating on their men, but a man who cheats is sin itself and must be brutally destroyed by any means necessary. Most of us guys know it's "bad" to cheat on a woman, but the majority of us may not know exactly what "cheating" is as a woman sees it.
You see, having sex with another woman is only the most extreme case of cheating. Talking to other women, looking at other women, even fantasies including other women can all be considered cheating as far as girls are concerned. Sure, girls can flirt all they want with whoever they want, but to us guys it's best that we forget that girls other than our ladies even exist...they're all just funny-looking guys with long hair.
4) When you're living with a woman, helping around the house can become a sore point...she expects you to do it, and you don't want to. I understand not wanting to get up and clean stuff or take out the trash, but you have to really consider whether or not it's worth ticking your girlfriend off. Take my advice...just get up off your lazy butt and do a few chores.
So that's the main list of stupid things we guys do. You may be wondering about why this could really help you if you're already broken up, and that's a fair question. Fact is, not everyone who is broken up, STAYS broken up, and if you manage to get a second chance with her you do NOT want to make the same mistakes again. Also, addressing these potential problems can help you out a lot with any other women you end up dating in your life.
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