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Female Libido Enhancer- The Magic Solution |
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Colin Johnson |
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This article is for men only. I say the solution for enhancing female libido is like magic, because men, you can make a dramatic difference in your wife's sex drive through some very simple actions on your part. Just like magic. If you don't believe me, you need to test it out and see for yourself. I counselled couples for ten years and listened countless times as he complained about his wife's lack of libido and she answered with a list of complaints about her husband rather more numerous and all, totally fixable. So now it's over to you, men. Put these principles into action if you're serious about re-lighting the fire of passion in the love of your life.
Be a domestic doer. A climax of any woman's day can be to walk into home to find many of the domestic chores done and dusted! What a delight for her to discover the clothes washed, the house spotless and the dinner already prepared as she walks through the door thinking her days is far from over. Especially if she is also a mother, tiredness can quickly be a passion killer and any task that unexpectedly completed will be a delight. A lack of energy can be a curse and often an energy boosting supplement can make all the difference with todays demands and busy lifestyle. Make this domesticity a habit rather than a rarity that arises just when you have love making in mind.
Romance her every day, not just on your wedding anniversary. Plan ahead. Be always thinking of creative ways you can show her a good time, doing things she loves, and surprising her whenever you can. Get dressed up and take her out to a beautiful restaurant, splurge for a change! The next time you might make sandwiches and take her on a picnic when the weather is fine. You'll discover that she's not that concerned with how much you spend, it's really about the thought you've put into it and the preparations you've made in advance. Ensure that you have loads of time on these dates so that you're not rushed and consider being spontaneous when the mood takes you both. Go on, roll up those trousers, kick off those stilettos and go walking on the beach like teenagers. You only live once. Make wonderful memories. Most women find this tremendously attractive. Foreplay really starts from the minute you wake up in the morning, through everything you say and do until she falls into your arms that night.
Listen to her with genuine interest and concentration. Chances are, your wife is one of the women who utter twice as many words as men in any given day. So you will have to make time to listen and let her know you are listening by giving her eye contact, putting the newspaper down or turning the television off, and respond actively by asking further questions. Your questions should be based as much as possible on feelings: what did she feel when that happened, imagining how she must feel now, and so on. Resist the temptation to give her the answers to the problems she discusses, actually that's not what she wants from you, she just wants empathy.
Be a message sender. Short messages that punctuate her day will bring a smile to her face. A cell phone text, an email, a fax, a card arriving to home or work with a special message will not be easily forgotten. But remember, make it a regular occurance and let the subject of the message be her qualities that you adore. Get some tips from professionally made cards that contain mesages of love. Let your emotions and softness show. These notes can even be an invitation to a date with you! Make every day one that you re-court your sweetheart.
Be a cuddler. As a relationship counsellor I cannot recall the endless stream of comments that came from wives who were so frustrated and repelled by husbands whose only demonstrations of affection was during love making. That is one of the quickest libido killing mistakes made by men. Hug your wife at least 5 times a day without any sexual agenda at all. And be the instigator, she shouldn't have to ask. Kiss her regularly and make sure your personal hygiene is up to standard. Sometimes the best sex aids you can use are a toothbrush and aftershave! Little things when done often lift libido guaranteed!
Be a date remeberer. Never, ever forget a birthday, anniversary, Valentines Day, Christmas gift or any other significant date that you share. Keep a diary or find some method to remind you of each of these dates. Be the first one on these days to do something special or give a card or gift to your partner. Get up earlier and prepare a surprise for your princess. Don't even give her a chance to suspect that you have forgotten her and raced out and grabbed a rushed token gift that has no meaning. Being the first to remember lets her know the importance of her to you.
Get her some extra help. In our modern lifestyles, women are incredibly busy and have to juggle an amazing number of roles and responsibilities. Sometimes there are physiological reasons why women may have low libido. The biggest of these reasons is often lack of energy and plain fatigue. I'd firstly try a health supplement specifically designed for female libido enhancement. Maca powder is the best one I know. It helps both men and women not just with increased energy levels but also with increased sex drive. Buy your partner some maca powder (which is one of the cheapest on the market) and see if what the research says works for you.
I have listed here the most important libido lifting tricks I know, based on years of listening to couples in relationship counseling. Ask any passionate couple if there's a magic trick to keeping the flame burning and they will echo some or all of these principles. It's actually not difficult to carry out what a woman wants, as long as you know what that is. Fulfilling what she wants is the most effective foreplay you'll ever need!
Colin Johnson highly endorses the natural maca powder as a female libido enhancer. The benefits are fantastic. Colin has been a marriage consultant and life coach to many, and father of five all in one lifetime! Don't reprint this exact article. Instead, reprint a free unique content version of this same article.
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