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To Successfully Quit Smoking, You Need A Multi-legged Stool |
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Darren Warmuth |
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To Successfully Quit Smoking, You Need a Multi-legged Stool
by Darren Warmuth
No, I'm not crazy! I just thought it was a catchy title that would grab your attention and get you to read on.
The stool or more correctly, the legs of the stool are a metaphor for what I feel is one of the most important aspects of quitting smoking - SUPPORT. Picture if you will sitting down at the computer to write a letter on a stool with only one leg and how difficult it would be to remain on it. Sure, you can say 'If the leg is in the middle of the stool, balancing shouldn't be too hard.' True, but what say the one leg is attached to the outer perimeter as normal? Do you think it would be much harder to concentrate on finishing your letter if most of your attention is spent trying not to fall over? Probably very difficult, I would think.
Now what would happen if we added a second leg? Would it be easier to maintain balance. Sure it would. You would only have to give it half the attention for with two legs it would only move back and forth or side to side. And this would make it far easier to maintain balance and keep your attention on the task at hand.
Let's now add the third leg, which by the way has been shown to be the most stable arrangement for a stool, and what do we get. Right - perfect stability. We can now sit with complete confidence upon our three legged stool and focus all our attention on our letter because we no longer have the fear of falling over (failure).
How does this metaphor relate to quitting smoking? Well, like the one legged stool, if you attempt to quit smoking on your own with no other support, it will be that much more difficult to stay focused. Why try to do it alone when there are friends out there who would be more than willing to help you. Adding another couple of legs to your efforts would be recommended to get more stability (support), but four, five or more friends would not be out of line either.
The important think to ask of the people whom you confide in for support is to ask that they remain at your disposal and not badger you with questions like 'How is it going?' everyday. You don't want your support team to be a hindrance in trying to reach your goals, but a help. And one other thing. If you the courage to do it, make a deal with them and yourself in that if you ever decide you may want to have 'just one' cigarette that you MUST call each and every one of them and tell them you've decided to continue smoking. Make it through all your support 'legs' without being talked out of doing something silly like that and I would be quite surprised.
FREEDOM from the cigarette will come once you've made up your mind and enlisted all the tools you can find, including the multi-legged support system.
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