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'Trying' To Quit Smoking Isn't Good Enough |
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Darren Warmuth |
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'Trying' to Quit Smoking isn't Good Enough
by Darren Warmuth
'Try' is a very weak word. Just ask any coach or personal trainer. They'll both tell you that you won't get very far by just trying. You have to commit. Without a totally committed level of thinking, it becomes very difficult to be successful. The same goes for quitting smoking.
Don't be led astray by your own beliefs by saying the word 'try'. Don't even use it to soften your words to your friends. Using this word will do nothing but set you up for future failure.
Don't belive me? Then consider this. Most people who aren't afraid of heights or have a particular phobia about speed can ride roller coasters. Not my wife. She won't get near them and we really can't figure out the reason why.
In any case, there have been occasions when my son and I have been able to convince her to stand in line with us and have got her to say 'I'll try.' But here's the thing; every time we get near the loading lane, she bails out and decides to wait for us at the end instead.
Her way out? She only said she would 'try'. And trying as we all know doesn't really commit you to much. The same is true of smoking. I realize that saying 'I'll try' is what everyone else says, so when you want to quit, you say the same thing. However as we know, this will only soften your efforts whether you realize it or not because you have now given yourself a way out.
Talk to any smoker who has gone through this process, some of them more than once, and you will find that when they set out to achieve their goal of quitting they said 'I'll try' and when they failed, they state 'Oh well, I tried.'
Try and do that with this statement - "I am quitting (enter your chosen date) for good. For the good of my health; for the good of my family and for the good of my finances. FOR GOOD!" No excuses. You see the difference. You cannot allow any alternative options or 'outs' for yourself. You must commit fully and stick to your resolution. Of course your commitment doesn't have to say exactly that but it must state the most powerful reasons as to why you want to quit.
If you want to hold yourself accountable to your goal of becoming a non-smoker, then you MUST put statements like this onto paper. And then you MUST place these pieces of paper where you can see them often so that you never lose sight of your ultimate goal.
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