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Solving Child Behavior And Child Discipline Problems |
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Dr. Noel Swanson.. |
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Solving child behavior and child discipline problems
by Dr. Noel Swanson..
The fundamental rule for all discipline problems is encouraging good behavior instead of punishing bad behavior. It's a tried and tested method that rewards work better than punishments.
Sure, it might work for you for a little while, but then you find your children laughing at you every time you say 'one more time and I'll (insert child disciplinary method)'. Well, you aren't the first parent to experience this and not only does it ruin consistency, it creates a negative environment in the home.
There is no short-cut as far as disciplining your child is concerned. When one method doesn't work, you will have to try another; you can't just throw discipline out of the window and forget about it. As parents, you must know that punishment tactics have more chances of failing; so, try a reward system. You cannot expect positive children's behavior by meting out negative behavior to them. Children are like mirrors; they reflect you. You can't yell and demand silence from your child, for example. And, you can't afford to become hysterical when your child is throwing a tantrum.
Here are some parenting tips for establishing a reward system:
1. Both parents must sit down and formulate an action plan. Communication is the keyword here. Make a list of child behavior actions and rewards. For example, you can set a reward for cleaning up the bedroom without having to be reminded.
2. The next step is to sit down with your children, if they are old enough, and explain the system. Remember to engage older children in this type of routine change. It will make it run smoothly and avoid any child behavior problems. If they feel they are contributing to the household decision making process they will be more willing to cooperate. Younger children listen to older siblings more than they obey orders from parents. They are the second-rung management, you see.
3. Follow through and keep a record. Keeping track of a lot of activities can be hard to do. Use the chart to keep track of where each child stands. This is also a visual reinforcement.
Following these three steps will help you get started in establishing a reward-based child discipline system in your home to help make sure things get done. By rewarding good child behavior and the accomplishment of child discipline tasks, you set a positive foundation for self-esteem.
You can visit visithttp://www.good-child-guide for additional information on child temper problems and managing defiant children.
Need some ideas for handling your children's behaviors? Why not take a look at Dr. Noel Swanson's children's behavior newsletter. His book, The GOOD CHILD Guide, is also one of the best available. Visit here for more parenting articles. This article is available as a unique content article with free reprint rights.
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