Those who don’t have the inclination, or the budget, to hire a wedding planner often do it on their own. Though friends and family can help, it is up to the bride to make sure that everything is taken care of when it needs to be done, and that nothing was forgotten. This can be hard. Most people marry once or twice, so its not like an event that one just automatically knows how to plan. When I married, I was over the moon when I realized that I could get wedding planner books that would take some of the work out of the wedding for me.
Good wedding planner books will list every imaginable thing you have to do or get for your wedding, and will give you a timeline. Some don’t know how early they should order bridesmaid dresses, and they are often left scrambling to be sure they are done. The wedding planner books I found told you when to do something and even how to do it. Not only that, they had great checklists that you could use to be sure you didn’t miss anything. If you worried you forgot something, you could easily go back and see that you had indeed finished it up.
You can find good wedding planner books for free at times, but they are always worth the price you would pay if you had to buy one. I don’t know what I would have done without mine. The one I got was free, but I did buy another version that I gave to my maid of honor so she could remind me of things I needed to do. The free ones are often put together with money from advertisers. They get free advertising space in return for helping finance the book. That aside, they are really valuable, and you may find the advertisements to be very helpful.
You can even find great wedding planner books online. Some you can use for free, and some have a fee. Either works well, and it really depends on the size of your wedding as to what you want to buy. If you prefer a paper version of wedding planner books, you can find them online and have them mailed to your home. Most bookstores have them, and you may find them in some wedding sections of regular stores. Don’t forget to ask where you are buying your wedding dress, as they may have some as well.
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