We Americans are odd ducks. I say this because of the way we treat our families. Or at least the way some of us do. From the second we're born, our parents take great care in raising and providing for us. However, then when they get older, and are unable to care for themselves, we stick them in a senior care services facility. Hmm, does that really seem right? Well, right or wrong, countless Americans do it. We've come to refer to these establishments as "old folk's homes." And this isn't meant in a good way. Have you ever been to one? I've been to several! In fact, I used to deliver food to them all the time. And I can honestly say that I'd never subject my parents to one.
One summer back when I was fresh out of high school, I got to visit a foreign land. It was Taiwan. My best friend was from there, and we were off to hang with his relatives for a month. I watched how they cared for their elderly. I even ask my friend's uncle about local senior care services. He replied with a snicker, and told me that the male sons always take care of their parents when they cannot care for themselves. It's all about family responsibility. Although I did wonder what happened to the elderly who had no male children, I didn't inquire further. Anyway, this got me thinking about Americans and our ways of life. If possible, I would think anyone with elderly parents would take care of them and have them live in their own home. I realize that some need more extreme care, but many do not.
All that being said, there indeed are senior care services that offer wonderful amenities and living situations. My 83 year old grandmother lives in one right now. She actually prefers it. She basically has her own apartment, but help is nearby if she needs it. All it takes is the press of a button. These elderly communities are by no means cheap. Therefore it's understandable that many cannot afford them. As for these individuals, hopefully their children or relatives will care for them if they have any. It would definitely beat spending your golden years in an "old folk's home."
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