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Why Some Men Don't Want To Commit |
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Steve Ubah |
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If you are dating, engaged, or still trying to find Mr. Right,
then this week’s message is for you - Why some men do not want
to commit or find it very difficult to commit to women they
supposedly love. This topic is quite puzzling to most single
women. You feel that a man who professes to love you ought to
commit to you with ease. Here are some of the reasons why some
men behave this way:
“Why commit when I am getting the goods free of charge?” – A lot
of men, if given the opportunity, will sow their wild oats until
hell freezes over. These men are like kids in a candy store –
they just don’t know how to choose when there are so many
varieties to choose from. It is more exciting for them to keep
you as one of their concubines, rather than get tied down and
lose out on the opportunity to sample the delicious lovelies out
there.
“What if I commit too soon and miss out on the most beautiful
woman I have ever met?” This is the kind of internal talk that
goes on in the head of the guy that is finding it difficult to
commit. You may be the nicest person they have ever met, but
something tells them that there may be someone else out there
who is more beautiful, sexier, freakier, and just plain nicer.
Past hurtful experience that makes it difficult to commit - Some
men want to commit to women, but find it very difficult to do so
as a result of being dumped, cheated on, or simply being
disappointed by someone they loved with all their heart. The
hurtful experience could also be from childhood, such as having
parents that divorced .
This sometimes makes a men feel that it is useless to commit to
any woman, when there is the possibility that the relationship
could break up. The relationship that once was his rock and
foundation – his parent’s – disintegrated. This type of man is
usually a good man, but as a result of the bad relationship
experience, has become gun shy. With some patience, love and the
passage of time, this kind of man usually overcomes his
commitment phobia.
Fear of taking on responsibility – With commitment comes
responsibility, and there are some men who just hate to take on
the kinds of responsibility that come with marriage and
childbirth. They find it much easier to remain single.
Your inability to satisfy him in bed – This is an
often-neglected reason why a man may not want to commit to a
woman. Men have this fear that if they are not sexually
satisfied now, when they have not committed to you, it may get
even worse when you get very comfortable after they commit.
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Just because your man is afraid of committing does not mean that
he cannot commit to you. There is always a way to get the
results you want. You can make yourself so irresistibly
attractive to him that all his inhibitions will just simply melt
away.
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Article Source: http://www.statssheet.com/articles/article43990.html |
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