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Dating Rules You Can't Afford To Break |
By:
Steve Ubah - Smartwomansguide.com |
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If you are single and you want men to desire your company more
and truly cherish you, then here are eleven dating rules you
cannot afford to break:
1.Never go to bed with a man on the first date – As much as you
would like to ravish the hunk you have a crush on, do not let
him feel that you are cheap and easy by going to bed with him on
your first date. It does not matter that he is promising that he
will respect you in the morning, or that the way he feels about
you will never change. If you do it, you run the risk of
reducing your value to him. Men are more attracted to women they
spend time to get to know, than they are to those they quickly
jump into the sack with.
2.Never call him first within the first week of your first date
– If your date asks for your phone number and does not call you
within the first week, do not call him. If a man is interested
in you, he will call you during the first week of taking you out
on a date. When you call him during that first week before he
calls you, you give him that impression that you are overly
anxious. The last thing you want is for this new person to feel
that you are a little desperate or forward.
3.Never use obscenities - If you curse like a sailor, it will
turn off your date, if you let that part of your personality out
on your first date. It is a turnoff for most men. It certainly
could ruin the chance of someone getting to know how nice you
really are on the inside.
4.Never engage in a conversation about marriage on your first
date – No matter how much of a good time you are having with
your date, do not bring up the topic of marriage, unless your
date asks about how you feel about the subject. When a woman
brings it up on a date, it creates the impression that you are
on a hunt for a husband. Nothing kills a date like a woman who
comes across as obviously interviewing men for marriage – trying
to find out if they are ready to make that serious commitment.
There is a right time for serious conversations – your first
date is not the time. Get to know your date first.
5.Never flirt with other men while you are on a date – The
cardinal sin of any first date is to flirt with other men in the
presence of your date. Do not do it. If you are trying to get
your date to see that you can attract other men, flirting with
other men in front of him is not the way to do it. It is
disrespectful and conveys that you are shallow and
untrustworthy. Your date will feel that if you have the gall to
flirt now, when you are supposed to be on your best behavior,
what will happen when you get hitched up? Most men wouldn’t want
to find out.
6.Never bring up your ex-boyfriend unless he asks you – Let your
past remain in the past, unless your date wants to find out why
you broke up with your ex-boyfriend. Never compare your ex with
your date, nor refer to something someone else did as something
that your ex would do. It simply shows that you have not gotten
over him.
7.Do not ask your date how much money he makes – This is
definitely a no-no. It shows that you could be a gold-digger,
and you do not want that label. Once a man sees that you measure
the value of a man by the size of his wallet, you can bet that
your date will be turned off.
8.Do not let out the skeletons in your closet - Don’t let it be
known that you were a drug head or prostitute at one time. Your
ugly past, even though you are a new person now, can prevent
your date from getting to know who you have become after going
through a tough past. Leave the horror stories for when he gets
to know you and can easily understand and accept all of you.
9.Don’t go out of your way to be funny, just be yourself – Don’t
start clowning around; pretending to be someone you are not.
Don’t turn your date into a night of cracking jokes or of
proving to your date that you have a fantastic sense of humor.
Be yourself and you will do just fine.
10.Do not order the most expensive meal on the menu – Ordering
the most expensive thing on the menu at a restaurant shows that
you are a potential gold-digger. It also shows that you are
greedy. Men love women that are conscious of the cost of things.
11.Do not show him you have a voracious appetite - Just because
you are famished does not mean that you should order everything
on the menu – super-sized. Most men are turned off by women with
huge appetites – men see that as not being feminine and
lady-like. Moreover, men feel that if your appetite is this big
when he has not gotten to know you, you may swallow a horse when
you really get comfortable with each other.
To find out more about what it takes to make men fall madly in
love, please visit http://www.smartwomansguide.com.
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